Thursday, January 31, 2013

The View From Reception

I know that I haven't written a blog post in quite a while. I fully intended to finish the 5 that I half wrote during the Fall Semester, but life got in the way. I had a wonderful first semester. There were definitely some ups [meeting new friends, taking classes that are completely new to me & being chosen by my class as a Deacon] & downs [navigating the balance between a social life, school & 2 jobs]. But this has been an incredible growing and learning experience for me as I continue to discern God's call for me. Thank you so much for your support during my YAV year & my first year of seminary. I am going to try and make more time in my schedule to blog during the future months. 

I have a lot of things I should be doing right now. I have a devotion due at the end of the day today that is barely written. I have a Candidate Statement to write for my University of Chicago School of Social Service Administration application. I should be reviewing Hebrew vocab so I don't forget all of it. Yet, I feel compelled to write a blog post. Because, I really do witness the most incredible things working at the reception desk at McCormick.

Last semester one of our professors left her purse at the Starbucks down the street from the school. Not her wallet, her entire purse. I guess she put it down & forgot it? That detail isn't really important. In the afternoon, someone from Starbucks came by and asked to see speak with her. She didn't even realize that her purse was missing until I called her to come down to the lobby. Nothing was missing from her purse or wallet and the man, who turned out to be the owner of this particular franchise, refused to take a tip. He simply stated that he was doing the right thing.

A few minutes ago, a man came running in through the front doors. I thought maybe he was late for a meeting and needed a parking pass. Instead he told me that one of the cars in the lot had it's lights on. He not only went up to the 3rd floor to tell the Doctoral students, but he came back down with the student's keys to turn off the lights. He then brought the keys back to the classroom and left. I haven't seen an act of kindness like that in a long time.

Earlier this morning, I got a phone call from an alum of McCormick. We are having a book discussion on Monday based on Michelle Alexander's book, The New Jim Crow: Mass Incarceration in the Age of Colorblindness. This man was calling to see if we were going to be selling copies of the book at the event. Instead of just letting me transfer him to the appropriate person, he insisted that I take down his information, find out, and call him back. Normally I do everything I can in these situations to not take messages. I don't see most faculty or staff on a regular basis, and I don't want the messages to get lost. Normally I end up just emailing them. However, on this particular occasion, I agreed. When I found the answer to his question & called him back, he then proceeded to ask me how much it was at Barnes & Noble. My frustration level with this conversation was through the roof at this point. I'm not his personal secretary. Why can't he just look it up himself? Then he had me looking at the closest locations to where he lives. This phone conversation was getting ridiculous. I could have very easily been rude to him on the phone or just passed the message along to someone else. But that's not what happened. Instead, I made a new friend and we are going to meet on Monday to discuss the book. During this ridiculous phone conversation, I learned where he was from, the story behind his name, the fact that he is disabled, and much more. As I was trying my hardest to end the conversation before he talked to me into buying it for him and bringing it to his house, I realized something. God was working though me.

On the very last day of finals for the Fall Semester, I was working & trying to finish my paper for History. Of course, I had procrastinated and assumed that I would be able to devote time while working at the desk. What I didn't know was that the Staff Christmas Party was also the same day, taking place (for some unknown reason) in the lobby. So there was to be a party happening 5 feet from me while I tried to finish my research paper on The Acts of Paul and Thecla. I was not a happy camper. Someone that I work with noticed that I was upset. She found another student worker who was done with finals to cover the desk, while I moved to a quieter area of the building.

These events are not scarce at McCormick, and that is one of the reasons I love it here so much! Everyone that is a part of the greater McCormick community is devoted to helping others. The level of competition that is so rampant in other parts of the world seems to be absent. Professors understand that life happens (mostly) outside the classroom. Students are not competing against each other for the top of the class. Ruthlessness is not a virtue here.

Unfortunately every day is not like this. I have days when no matter what happens, I can't seem to find God at work. I have times when my classmates frustrate me & I wonder why I am here. I have days when everyone who calls the McCormick phone is rude and demanding. But today is not one of those days. And I hope that today is not one of those days for you either. Sometimes it takes a little work, but I hope that you can find God working somewhere in your home, school, workplace or community today. 

Saturday, September 15, 2012

First Impressions: Seminary

Sometimes I still can't believe that I'm in seminary. These past few weeks haven't felt real. I don't really know how to describe it. I've never been in classes before that opened with prayer and the professors actually wanted to hear our opinions & thoughts. When I was in undergrad at Trinity, I felt like the professors just asked us questions to make sure that we had done the readings. Granted- when the subject one studies is accounting, there really isn't much room for interpretation and opinion. That's how companies end up with fraudulent accounting and suspect business practices.

I am currently enrolled in 4 classes: Pilgrimage in Faithfulness (PIF), Intro to Biblical Studies, History Survey 1 and Sexual & Domestic Violence. PIF is a course that all entering first-year seminarians are required to take. We are going to discuss subjects like baptism, communion, etc. From my understanding, the course is designed to not only orient us with the other opinions and viewpoints that our classmates bring, but to also make us evaluate what we ourselves believe. Intro to Biblical Studies is just that...and introductory course to studying the Bible from an academic lens. This is not the most exciting of courses, but I know that it is going to be invaluable for me since I only took 2 "religion" courses in college: Old Testament and World Religions. Neither of which taught me how to write an exegetical paper (a critical study and evaluation of biblical text). History Survey 1 is the first of 2 required Christian history classes that I need to take. So far it has been fun to learn about the early Christians!

Sexual & Domestic Violence (SDV) is my "fun" course for the semester. I think the best advice I received from my advisor & other McCormick students was to register for a course that I actually wanted to take vs a course that is required. Instead of Greek, I chose to register for SDV. For those of you who don't know, I took a course on international human trafficking when I studied abroad in Copenhagen. Although the class material was upsetting and disturbing, the information I learned is invaluable. These things (human trafficking & sexual and domestic violence) happen and extremely prevalent in our society. When they are not discussed, the issues do not go away. Instead we are just ignorant to them and people around us get hurt. I know I have more to say on this topic, but that is a different post for another day. For now, I'll just say this: sexual and domestic violence happens to people across political lines, sexual orientation, ethnicity, economic status, religious beliefs, and education. The victims of domestic violence should never be blamed. Men are not the dominant partner in the typical heterosexual marriage and clergy should never tell someone to put their marriage before their own personal safety or the well being of a child.

On a more positive note, I love living in Hyde Park. I actually feel at home here. Lately I came to the realization that if I do not feel at home somewhere, it is hard for me to adjust and enjoy new experiences. That was one of my biggest roadblocks to overcome while at Trinity. I lived in San Antonio for 4 years, but I never grew to think of it as home. Likewise, even though I lived in my YAV house for an entire year, it was never a place that I felt comfortable, relaxed and safe. Unfortunately, these times in my life were also times of immense personal growth. It was an emotional and spiritual struggle that was only increased by my feeling of displacement. I am so thankful that McCormick is an open, welcoming, and affirming community. I have already made some great friends and I am looking forward to the next 3 years with a positive & optimistic outlook. I am excited to learn and discern God's call alongside these amazing people! 

Friday, August 17, 2012

Friday Favorites: Week 2

This has been a busy week! I started off the week in San Diego, CA visiting Rebecca. She is awesome and I had a really great time. We went to the beach, which was awesome because my ideal vacation revolves around spending time at the beach. While we were there, we saw the biggest waves! Ok, they were probably only 6-8 feet tall, but I have never been in the ocean with waves that large. It was a really interesting/terrifying experience. Rebecca and I also watched all of Downton Abbey: Season 2 when I was visiting. It was awesome. :) And we went to the Titanic exhibit at the San Diego Natural History Museum. It was a lot of fun--especially if you enjoy looking at old things that have been eroded way under the ocean for 100 years. Balboa Park is one of those iconic San Diego landmarks (think Air & Space Museum, the San Diego Zoo, etc). I love visiting the park even for a short while.

I have done quite a lot of packing/cleaning/purging of my room the past few days. That was one of the reasons for the trip home. However, it has been really weird going through all of my old things! I came across a lot of old trinkets that reminded me of middle school, TAMS, high school & the first 2 years of college that I seem to have forgotten in my old age. It was both nostalgic and therapeutic to clean it all.

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Favorite Charity: Locks of Love
They estimate that 80% of their donations come from kids wanting to help other kids with cancer.
photo credit: locksoflove.org
Favorite Pin (one I am most likely to actually do...): Pineapple plant!
DIY of the day! Did you know that you can simply plant the top of a pineapple in a pot and grow another?
(via Planting A Pineapple — Tickled Red - StumbleUpon)
photo credit:  http://modcloth.tumblr.com

Favorite Thing I'm looking forward to in Chicago: The Doughnut Vault 
This place is THE BEST! Seriously...you need to go here ASAP. I don't care if you don't live in Chicago. They have specials every week--the birthday cake one is my favorite!
Doughnut Vault Specials Calendar for 8.14.12- 8.18.12

Coming up we’ve got the roasted almond glazed doughnut for our Tuesday special. And on Wednesday is the bright blueberry old fashioned. Thursday we’re doing double chocolate yellow cake, oh yeah! And Friday is the Mocha glazed with coco nibs— perfect with a cup of $1 coffee. And then Saturday is birthday cake, because it’s our favorite doughnut gal’s birthday, so be sure to wish her a happy one if you’re in the vault on Saturday.
photo credit: thedoughnutvault.tumblr.com

Favorite Late Night Snack: Pistachio Almond Bluebell Ice Cream
photo credit:  http://bluebellreview.blogspot.com/

Oh.my.gosh. This candle is my favorite, and it is currently on sale on the website. I hope you all know that I am showing extreme financial restraint for not buying any!!
Frosted Cupcake 14.5 oz. 3-Wick Candle - Slatkin & Co. - Bath & Body Works
photo credit: bathandbodyworks.com

Favorite TV Show: Downton Abbey
 I don't even know where to begin. This show enthralls me. I love the characters, plot and set. The scenery is amazing. I go in to a weird trance when I watch this show and don't want to do anything else. If you haven't already seen this show, you need to stop what you are doing and watch it. Season 1 is available on Netflix & I know that Season 2 in on Amazon Prime. Both of these things have 30-day trials...which is plenty of time for you to watch both!
Click to watch a preview
photo credit:  http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/masterpiece/downtonabbey/season2.html 

Favorite BBQ Joint: Hammond's BBQ
If you live anywhere near Glen Rose, TX then you need to check out Hammond's!

photo credit: the amazing Janalyn from 8twenty8 Studios

Friday, August 10, 2012

Friday Favorites- Week 1

Good morning! One of my favorite things to do on Friday is read all of the Friday Favorites blog entries. Since I am also a blogger & love Friday, I thought I would jump on the bandwagon. 

Favorite Song: My House by: The O'My's (a Chicago band!)


Favorite Recipe: Grilled Ratatouille Pasta 


Favorite Photo: Port Issac, Cornwall
Aerial photo of Port Isaac, from Facebook, August 2012

Favorite Quote: 
Discovery consists not in seeking new lands, but in seeing with new eyes. ~ Marcel Proust

Favorite Snack: Peaches


Favorite Rant: NBC's treatment of the Olympics




Favorite Thing to Watch: The Olympics!!


Favorite Customer Service Moment: Amazon.com's customer service is ah-mazing! 
Seriously. My Kindle was broken & they were shipping me a new one (which is awesome). But then I realized on Monday that they were mailing it to Chicago...when I am currently in Texas! Yikes! But I called, explained the situation, and they shipped me a new one to Texas that day. It is especially nice since I am flying to San Diego to visit Rebecca today & I hate flying without my Kindle.

Ultimate Favorite: Today I am flying out to San Diego to visit Rebecca!! :)

Monday, July 30, 2012

July Devotion

Text for this reflection | Luke 21:1–4
Reflection 
While reading this short passage of Jesus witnessing the poor woman’s offering, I am reminded of a scene I myself witnessed just a few days ago. I was waiting for the bus when I saw a homeless man ask three young women for some money to buy food. They handed him change from their pocket, which could not have been more than a dollar or so. They were holding takeout boxes from the restaurant they had just left but did not offer them to this man. As they walked off with huge smiles on their faces, I felt myself becoming upset with these women. It was obvious to anyone watching this take place that they felt righteous in their actions. To me, it seemed like they hadn’t really done anything! What good does a few pennies do when you could afford to give so much more or something else more valuable—your time?
While reading this story in Luke and reflecting on what I witnessed, I realized that I was in the wrong for judging what someone else gave. Although I am able to donate my time to help those less fortunate than myself, that does not mean I am given free rein to judge others. I think this short passage is a healthy reminder that we all should give as we are able to and remember that it is not up to us to decide what another can or should give. Just as the rich men in the reading for today probably deemed the poor woman’s offering as unworthy or not enough, I was judging someone else’s offering without truly knowing their story.
Prayer 
Almighty God, you alone know what is in our hearts. You alone know what we are truly able to give. Always I pray that you may guide my actions. Grant me the wisdom to give as I can and the grace to accept others’ donations of resources or time without judgment. Amen.